Personality

In borderline personality disorder, self-contempt fell and something else moved in to replace it

Covered November 1, 2026

Seventy-nine people did structured self-criticism dialogues twice, four months apart. Clients receiving good psychiatric management showed a large drop in observed self-contempt, and increased access to self-compassion and assertive anger.

Self-contempt is a recognisable feature of borderline personality disorder and a plausible target for therapy, but it is usually measured by asking people about it, which is exactly the kind of self-report a person deep in self-contempt may answer unreliably. Researchers led by Ueli Kramer took a different approach in this secondary analysis of a randomised controlled trial. Seventy-nine people took part: 27 clients with BPD receiving good psychiatric management, 23 receiving treatment as usual, and 29 healthy controls. Both treatments ran four months. Everyone completed experiential two-chair dialogues focused on self-criticism at two time points, deliberately outside the therapy room, and their emotional expressions were rated from video using the Classification of Affective Meaning States and a self-contempt rating scale. Observed self-contempt decreased with a large effect in the clients receiving good psychiatric management, to a degree similar to healthy controls, and with a medium effect in those receiving treatment as usual. The more interesting result concerns what replaced it. The proportion of clients in the structured treatment who reached self-compassion and assertive anger increased - and that did not happen in the treatment-as-usual group, nor in the healthy controls, who had less room to move. That pattern supports the idea that undoing self-contempt is not simply subtraction but makes space for something else. The limits: this is a secondary analysis, the groups are small, four months is short, and a staged two-chair dialogue is a controlled proxy for the emotional work of real sessions rather than a recording of it.

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